My boyfriend is a soldier in the United States Army. Understand that these guys have to deal with things that the average person couldn’t imagine.Though I’m no stranger to military men (my grandfather, father and brother were all enlisted), this is the first time I have dated a soldier. I’ve seen a lot of websites that list ten things an Army girlfriend should remember and do, and some of them made great points. And your honey could be shipped out at any time, for months or years. Many of these are difficult and sometimes disturbing. If he wants to talk about his life in the Army, be it the crazy times with the guys in his unit, the tedium of the everyday, or even the tougher times, let him be the one to broach the subject.Please realize that we do not police the community so use your best judgement.Our largest concentration of US military singles are centered near some of the biggest US military bases including: Fort Hood, TX, Camp Lejeune, NC, Camp Pendleton, CA, Fort Lewis-Mc Cord, WA, Fort Dix-Mc Guire, NJ, Fort Campbell, KY, Norfolk Navy Base, VA, Eglin AFB, FL, Fort Bragg, NC. Our goal with Military Friends Date is to provide a REAL and LEGITMATE place to meet US Military Singles right in your local area.Curious as to what I was in for, and wanting some solid guidance, I went looking for advice on how to be a good Army girlfriend. However, in my own time as an Army girlfriend, I’ve come upon a few revelations of my own. Dating a soldier is a commitment, and not one to be taken lightly. Above all, talk to people who’ve lived it and ask them to be honest. If you’re not ready for to be an Army girlfriend and all that it entails, break it off. As soon as my guy used the g-word, I hit the keyboard and called my sister-in-law (retired Army wife extraordinaire). Soldiers work long hours that they have absolutely no control over. If you’re one of those girls who always needs a guy on her arm, get used to disappointment. You’ll have time for your friends, family, hobbies and work. And odds are, one of the reasons his time with you means so much to him is because it’s one of the few times he can get away from that life. My boyfriend and I have plenty to talk about, from video games to the funny cashier at the grocery store, and I never bring up the Army to any extent greater than asking him how his day went. If your man is ready to introduce you to the guys in his unit and/or regiment, it’s a big step.What follows is some humble advice on how to cope with being the significant other of soldier. If you and your soldier are ready to enter a relationship, make sure you know exactly what you’re getting into. Both gave me a wealth of knowledge I otherwise would not have had. The time he has for you will be dictated by someone else entirely. Concentrate on these, and appreciate the time he’s allowed to have with you. And when he does let me in on the other things, I try to listen and not pry. Men who are stationed together are often closer than brothers. Don’t cling to your man like a backpack, and don’t emasculate him in front of his guys.Whether you are looking for singles in Army, Navy, Marines, Coast Guard, or Air Force; Military Friends Date is the ultimate singles community for meeting new friends for dating who are in the service. Send and reply to all your messages and never get asked to pay for anything. Our military singles site is completely free of cost! These ads offset the costs to maintain the site and makes the site totally free for everyone! join now and start browsing military singles near you.
As a free military dating site we are 100% ad supported. As a network with other dating communities our large membership base increases your chance of meeting some.Let's be real: Long-distance relationships suck, especially if it involves someone serving in the military.Being separated for seven months from the person you want to spend the most time with and not being able to contact him while he's away during deployment can be heartbreaking.Before my husband deployed to Iraq for the second time, he and I went through a particularly rough patch in our relationship, and found ourselves fighting, literally, all the time.We fought about stupid things, things that didn't matter, but for some reason, neither of us were willing to let anything go.The surprises, emotional roller coaster and the waiting are worth it, and it's quite a ride. I send the sneakers he wants, razors, junk food from BJ's, supplements and more. A planner is definitely needed while dating a man in the military. Your military man will make you feel safe in his arms or just in general.